I could use some kind words of wisdom.

I have to wear a heavy pad after drinking over a cup of water in the morning and throughout the day.

Have you consulted your doctor about this?

I had the tvt surgery done about 5 weeks ago and it’s the best thing I ve ever done for myself, I notice the difference in the second day. 

The TVT is only effective in cases of stress incontinence, ie leaking when coughing/sneezing/lifting heavy weights etc. Unless I am reading this wrong I dont think Linda has this.

PS I had aTVT about 4 years ago and am very happy with the outcome.

Do see your doctor about this problem Linda.....this is such a common problem and there are a lot of possible solutions. These are the problems we dont talk about with our friends and family.

In the mean time make sure you are using a proper incontinence pad [Tena are excellent] and not an ordinary sanitary pad. They will hold much more moisture.

Wow linda91933 how come you have to wear a heavy pad after drinking over a cup of water? And maybe you should cut back on the amount of water you drink