please help! I have been with my boyfriend the same partner for about 4 months now. About 6 days ago we had vaginal sex and then without asking he just switched to anal sex and it hurt really bad and a day later I got a couple bumps outside of my anus and my anus felt like it was ripped because of a piece of loose skin coming out. We had sex that day without a condom in my vagina and then in my butt without cleaning off or anything which im scared is what maybe could have caused this. Then over the past few days a lot of painful bumps showed up on my vagina. I get tested for STDs every 8 months or so at a women’s clinic but i havent been tested since being with my current boyfriend and one other partner I’ve been with in the last 9 months or so. I have a huge feeling I have genital herpes and I’m really scared and depressed. It maybe could have been dormant in my body and just showed up now because of the anal sex but I dont know. I’m planning to go to a gynecologist even though I’ve never been because the pain is horrible since I work long hours on my feet and it feels horrible. Please let me know if you think it looks like genital herpes I’ve never had any bumps at all before anywhere on my vagina and i’m so scared because it looks so bad and feeels horrible