Ever since I was dumped by a woman whom I had met at university and enjoyed 3 years of her company, life has been a nightmare. I have tried to cope in the last 20 years but pain keeps pounding me. I have been made redundant twice and have lost both my parents in that time
The women avoid me or think I am an idiot. No one wants to know or tries to understand, being 63 and gathering dust on a shelf.
Hi there, I'm sorry you've been deeply hurt by your relationship break up. I reckon you would benefit from some talking therapy, eg, counselling. I think it could really help you to talk through and understand your feelings. You are not an idiot, and if anyone treats you as though you are then are these people really worth worrying about- I don't think so. Take up something you enjoy doing and you may meet some genuine, sincere people. The rest will fall into place. You are not over the hill 60 is the new 30! Be your own best friend. Good luck, Donna x