I have small bumps after sex, is it herpes or ingrown hairs?

After having sexual intercourse with a condom, I noticed about 2 or 3 days after I had small pimple looking bumps on my inner thighs. Two of them remained flat while the other on my left inner thigh became raised and had yellowish fluid coming out when I accidentally popped it. It seems like the two flat ones have dead skin around it and the one I popped closey resembles ingrown hair but I do not particularly shave in that area. Is it herpes or ingrown hairs?

Also, the one that became raised and had pus hurts while the other two don’t

Can you please upload a photo? I get pimples on my inner thighs, I figure it's due to my thighs touching and possibly sweat or something.

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