I have this lump on my wrist. Had it since birth I'm now 20 male

this would swell up and cause lots of pain occasionally it would cause tingly fingers. it’s basically a sack of fluid under my skin that goes all up my forearm.

I can’t upload images here as it says they are too big. please reply and I’ll find a way to send them.

That sounds like a ganglion cyst. They are not dangerous, or uncommon, but if a real problem they can be drained or removed totally. See your doctor.