I just lost virginity but I think I have herpes, how do I know?

I just lost virginity yesterday and his penis didn't have any bumps and he never said anything about having an STD..... today there's a blister looking thing on my face and it itches. I had oral sex but I haven't told my parents. How do I know if it's herpes or not?

Get checked, what are your symptoms?

Mainly just the break out above my lip but the problem with this is that he put it in my vagina before oral. I'm scared to tell my parents and he says he doesn't have herpes.

You don't know if he would have herpes. You should get checked .

How do I tell my parents? I'm only 14😭

One day is too soon and it wouldn't be on your face.

So I shouldn't worry?

I wouldn't. Two days later and on your lips, maybe, but one day later and on your face, no. Also, gHSV2 doesn't like the mouth so much, and gHSV1 isn't very infectious.

Okay, thank you!