I'm not a stupid guy I know the difference between love and infatuation but I'm in love with someone who will never feel the same. It's not her fault honestly, we've had conversations about it and yeah she has no feelings for me. But she's so incredible I've never felt support the way she has been there for me, we haven't spoken in two days and I believe it's because she's talking to her ex...in fact the last time we hung out she spent the whole day messaging him, which in reality isn't wrong because like I said we're just friends. I can't explain how empty and unbalanced I feel without her we talked on the phone everyday and apart of me hated it but I miss speaking to her all the time. No other girl has the same aura as her, I don't enjoy talking to anyone else I talked so much crap about leaving her alone and now I'm sitting here writing this because I'm afraid of losing her......she was there for me when no one else was and I don't want to let go of that advice?
It hurts when you love someone that can’t love you in tern. But, that’s all part of living. It seems she does care for you more like a brother. My recommendation would be to accept her decision. Be happy that you have such a good friend. I would stop talking to her every day. Give yourself a chance to meet other women and make more friends. One comment: her messaging her ex in your presence is not polite. If a man did this to me, friend or no friend, I would not waist my time with that person. Think better of yourself. There are a lot of good people out there that are worthy of you time and love.
thank you for the advice