im 23 and have had surgery on bartholin cyst twice now.
It first occured in october last year and i had no idea what was happening to me. it started off as a small lump-i went to my GP and was given anti-biotics and told it would go away itself. 4 days later i was in a&e with a massive extremely painful lump the size of an orange. i was given morphine for the pain and taken down for emergency surgery that night. The gyne specialist said it should never have got to that size and being in that amount of pain should not have happened-
although i think this was an isolated case- but i do think if anyone has this and believes it is getting worse-go to a specialist as in my experience a GP can only help so much and i have unfortunately had bad experiences with them and this issue. i had the cyst drained, i was in agony afterwards-
I had a very bad experience in the ward after my surgery-i got out of suurgery at about midnight- the nurse spilt water on my bed, didnt come back to change it, i couldnt reach my buzzer to ask for help, in the morning she yanked my catheter out( i wasnt told i had one in), this was very painful, they took me to the shower in the morning-i was very dizzy and could not focus, she left me in the shower alone, kneeling on a chair, which was very slidey after a while she came back and opened the door to the ward as i stood there naked, i felt very unsafe and the quality of care was quite frightening. Its just the thought that there are elderly and vunerable people out there who are being "cared for" in this fashion. i got home the next day. It took me 6 weeks to get back to normal.
Then a couple of months later i returned to my GP as i believed it had came back. i was told it had not. I was getting quite uncomfortable and sex was a no-go as i would be in a lot of pain afterwards.
after a long waiting list i was seen by a gyn specialist who told me straight away it had came back.
I was booked in for surgery a month later.
i was told all went well during my surgery and was let home that night- although i was still very uncomfortable. I noticed when i went to the loo, i would just pat the area afterwards-and i noticed a bright green discharge on the loo paper- i wasnt really sure if this was the drainage or something wrong. but my sergeon had said this could happen-two days later i went to the loo and noticed there was something that should NOT have been there.
It was like a piece of thick plastic string hanging out of me-i touched it and felt that it was quite far inside me and felt VERY painful- i didnt have a clue what was going on- i was very upset at this time as i wasnt sleeping very well because of the discomfort so my emotions were very heightened- i was staying with my mum while i recovered so she called nhhs24 as she didnt know what it could be either. I was told to go over to a&e and the doctor there called up to the gyne who said it must be a bit of gauze left in from my op. The doctor then told me she would have to pull it out.
This was very painful-the doctor said it should never have been there-we didnt know how long it was so it was just a case of yanking at it until it ended- i felt like a very UN comical clowns sleeve. i have just had enough of being poked and prodded and yanked down there. This happened last week and i am in recovery now. it is quite reassuring to know that other people have gone through the same thing. It is a horrible horrible thing which i had never heard of before i had it. I wish we knew how to prevent it so there could be some sort of awareness about this. i feel for anyone who has been through this.
i would be interested to know if anyone has any tips for soothing the discomfort during recovery?
and if you know if there are any ways to try and prevent it from returning ever again??