Please dont say this is a stupid reason to be depressed because its not. when I wasn't filling my boyfriends needs he wanted to leave me or cheat on me with some hot sexual girl and it made me suicidal and cut ok. I don't want that to happen again so please help.
I've had the implant in for over 3 months and have been bleeding straight for 2 months ranging from light to heavy. I asked to have it taken out as my blood pressure was low and I have a history with suffering with anemia so they put me on cerrelle which didn't stop my period like it was with everyone else, it has turned my blood brown and I can't deal with it because it makes me think that it's my bowel movements and its just very unhygienic and is totally defeating the reason why I had it, I stopped taking the pill and i'm bleeding so heavily and have blood clots.I wanted safe sex but now I can't have sex. so, Will it stop bleeding straight away if I have it out?
have you spoken to a nurse at your gp about this bleeding constant. what did they say?
also if he loves you that much he would listen and understand and go to gp with you and support you.
i just found out why i was depressed and it was a tablet interacting with my other medication.
Thea, go see your doctor and explain your situation. As for your boyfriend, if he is that much of a jerk, do you really want to be with him? Just think about whether he makes you feel good or bad about yourself. If he makes you feel bad then maybe he is not right for you. XX
Thankyiu for your help, I am seeing my GP tomorrow. My boyfriend has changed and I believe in second chances! he makes me happy so I hope he doesn't mess up and has realised from his mistake xx
I am bleeding because of my implant, I am seeing my GP tomorrow and my boyfriend is coming with me! I hope all goes well for you xx
let me know how u get on tommorrowxx
Sorry Thea your bf cannot love you if he cheats on you because you can't 'fufil' his needs. What about your needs? That isn't love, that is control and possession. As long as he gets what he wants he is happy and makes you happy. What a selfish git!
You need to decide what you want and fulfil your needs not kow towing to a loser like this. What happens if you become preggers? Would he go looking for sex elsewhere? If you had a baby with him he would still expect you to fulfil his needs despite having other priorities. Ooops here he goes cheating again and it's your fault. Everything will be your fault if he isn't happy. They abolished slavery many years ago you know!
Have some self respect girl and look for someone better than this low life.
Bev x
I agree! Nothing worse than a "Control Freak". Everything your fault including his unfaithful episodes! Take care Thea, they can be very charming until they can't have their own way then....... out go the toys from the pram and the tantrums start! Been there too. 
See my reply which went to hypercat! Look after yourself Thea!
Hi Ellie. I am always very sad to see so many young girls these days with such low self esteem. Do they learn from society to put men and everyone else first and themselves last? I wish they grew up with a positive self image and I think we are as a society failing them miserably. I often wish there was something I could do to stop it. It's all very sad.
Bev x
Bless you! Wish you the best tomorrow!
Me too Bev. They learn it from social media, films etc I think. Some of it is peer pressure, trying to be in with the girls at school, college and so on or they're not part of the in gang! Always lathered with makeup, trying to look perfect in case they meet "Mr Wonderful"! They have yet to learn to love and be proud of themselves without all the 'effects' to achieve a good self image. Hard to believe what they will get up to to be popular! 
"Society" has gone much too far in the opposite direction from when I was young. Personally I think I was too repressed, daren't bring a boy home in case the parents did not like him and would ban me from seeing him again! Too much parental control in those days and too little now!
Ellie (the old sage)! lol 
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Thankyou, I'm having my implant ourt on Friday!
I do feel like everything is my fault! I totally agree! Thankyou so much for your help!
I wish too I had a positive image and that I put myself before others but yes this is society and I hate it! x
Hope that helps your problem with the bleeding. My grandaughter had lots of problems with the implant. She also had a boyfriend who was a control freak. She dumped him and has now moved on to a really good relationship and new job. It did affect her self confidence for a long time and still does at times! Take care of Youself 1st! Ellie X
I agree but because he didn't act upon it I decided to give him a second chance and he has changed but I still have them thoughts about him cheating or leaving me because I don't fill his needs but yes I need my needs filling too and just not sexually. he still has a lot of growing up to do and a lot of trust to build with me again. its hard to leave someone when you love them! Thankyou for your help though xx
I agree with you! some well most people just want to do it for popularity and attention but I wanted to wait until I found someone worthy of mu body and someone I loved and I found him. he just wasnt willing to wait which messed up my self esteem! he didnr act upon it though so finally we took each others virginity but because i'm constantly bleeding I'm scared he will act on it. Thankyou for your help xx
You will probably feel better and stronger when your physical health improves. You sound very depressed at the moment. These things take time and it goes slowly when you're young. Lots of women can't use hormone treatment but with good advice I'm sure things will work out for you before long. You must take care of yourself 1st as I said before. Hopefully it will be a learnig curve for him and make him grow up and be a better person eventually. If not well..... Take heart and move on. There's lots of decent men out there, your's will turn up one day. There's more to life then them anyway! X