I'm due this operation next Friday and I'm terrified need to know what I need to prepare how long after op can you drive as my kids need to go to school my Mrs will be off work 10 days to help me but am I OK left on my own while she takes kids to school. what do I need to do before op to prepare myself. where can I buy male pads or nappys that I have been told to buy. can you someone help me with this please 🙏 I cant wait for it all to be gone and no longer see these things everytime I go to the toilet and have to get in shower push them up then sit for 3 to 4 hours to avoid them hurting or comjng out again.