I have mentioned this in one of the posts today but some ladies object to me as a professional being on this forum so I am taking some time away from the forum.
But surely the whole point on having the forum is that you matron as a professional and having gone through similar op, are in a position to give the best help answer support.
I am your that everyone will miss your invaluable support and advice. I do hope it won't be for very long, it will be very stressful for those of us who need advice and you are not there to give it!
Please be back soon.
Phyl xx
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Oh goodness ur advice because ur a professional has been invaluable.. I and I'm sure many others have valued ur advice above all others. I can't believe I'm hearing that some have not appreciated the time and trouble u go to to support us ladies. I hope u are not gone for long matron. U will be sorely missed. X
Hi Matron, I was looking forward to getting some advise after my operation. with you on the forum it gave me some confidence.
people do talk freely however it is up to them wether they listen or not I think you are a real strength to these lady's and well done for the support you have given so far you are amazing
Matron that is shocking you have been a fantastic support and your knowledge and sympathy have been brilliant. I one for one will miss you massively! !
Real pity as we survivors appreciate your common sense approach
Dear Matron
Your help and support has been invaluable and I thank you for that . There are so many trusts out there that give so little information. It must be a very small minority that object.
I for one certainly don't object. I am sorry you feel this way and would appreciate you changing your decision.
Thank you ladies but some don't and have tried a few ways to stop me posting even contacting the moderator although I cannot be certain. I wish you all well xx
Oh no matron,what will I do without yuou gold advice.oh I'm so sad😢xx
I'm sorry to hear that. I have really appreciated your posts -- having someone who has gone through the operation as well as having helped hundreds of other women through it is amazing.
It's hard when people online can give you a difficult time about things... even when they are anonymous and their opinions shouldn't matter. Please know that the vast majority of people here really value and appreciate you.
I hope you have a relaxing break away for however long or short it is.
my goodness how could anyone in their right mind object to you being here to assist and advise?
having had my insurer pay out close to 19k for all associated costs for my anterior and posterior repair I can honestly tell you that you Matron provided more support and reassurance to me than my consultant who provided no form of aftercare whatsoever whilst i was laden with a catheter fir 7 weeks. please do not allow anyone to downgrade you. you are by far the greatest asset this forum has and I know I speak on behalf of the majority of woman who can only but praise you for your invaluable help and support.
if I was asked to grade you between 1 and 10 I would grade you at a 15 immediately. ..
thank you for everything hope you come back soonest. you really do help so very many of us xxxx
I think that people doing this to you is absolutely vile. You are a walking encylopedia when it comes to all health issues and you will be sorely missed.
Please don't let the nasty people get you down.
Thanks again for your invaluable help & support for me personally over the last two years.
It's sad enough matron that we don't see any matrons on the wards anymore, we will be lost without you on the forum. My old auntie did her nursing training years ago before the war, when you had to pay for your training , she did many different certificates, and nursed children with infectious diseases down near Barrow in Furness. She did maternity too, ( wish she had warned me in more detail about prolapses).
They use to say that her advice and experience was invaluable , and often doctors to would ask her advice.
They can train up the young ones and they are exellent but they can only get experience by doing and gaining knowledge from the likes of yourself.
Phyl xx
Awe you will be missed sorry to hear some people object, hop you ar back soon 😔Xx
Oh Matron , that doesn't sound good, and Def. ..not right . Surely the moderator can ban any negative comments that cross the line?
Do not let this get you down ! I took me 6 months to recover enough to get back to work last time I had my op, but this time I hope to Def be back by 12 weeks, but am only managing this with your expert advice and help.
Phyl xx
Ridiculous! I do despair of people sometimes. Perhaps you could reinvent yourself. You've had the operation, you don't need to say you are a professional 😜
We will miss you.
I am disgusted that people would do this to you, if they don't like the site they should stay away! I found your advice very helpful after I had my op back in November! Please rethink. I read the updates everyday still. Your advice has been invaluable to so many people!
Matron, i cant believe what I have just read!!! Why would anyone have an issue with somebody giving informed and expert personal advice to ladies, like me, who desperately need it!?
I just dont understand ! i am so thankful to you for the advice you have given me - please dobt stay away too long - we need you!!
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What horrible people.you know the ones who treasure
Your professional advice matron. We all love you being here. Please come back.xx
That is awful! Why should a few people on here spoil it for the rest! You have been the most kind, caring and patient person and always give excellent advice! Sod them is what I say if they don't want advice from someone that has knowledge don't post on here ! I hope you change your mind for all the lovely ladies that take your advice xxxx 💞