So here's my story, i am having big problems with my anxiety, depression since forever because i was bullied as a kid in school and had a bad company ever since then everything id getting worse i failed school twice my father lost his job due to his illness my mother is not working and he had huge problems with diabetes to the point where nurse said iz could ne lethal because he wasnt controling it. Then a couple years after that my Brother who is currently 18 have had heart attack where they Said je wouldnt Survivor That his brain is dead due to lack of oxygen when je collapsed fortunatelly everything went well and nove je od okay and underground treatment but That os not my main sorry its actually that i think my Brother might have antisocial personality disorder and je is very aggressive and this behaviour was before an accident happened je once stole glasses from a stole and he almost gott to jail but fortunatelly, they didnt lock him. I mean he isnot Like really aggressive or violent to the point je is destroying property or something but im afraid he might harm me or my family i font know if this paranoia from All the stress i've went through especially recently od idk also my mother smoked during her pregnancy about 2 to 4 cigarettes daily and i was reading slot of studies That link prenatal smoking with antisocial personality disorder which only makes me more fearful i hate my mother for smoking during her pregnancy and its just to much od this for me i dont know what to do am i right about my Mons bad decision and am i just paranoid about my brother? Im 20 years and sorry for my English thank you in advance😃
You are not wrong about your brother. If he is aggressive and violent you need to be careful. I don't blame you for being upset at your mother. But dont judge your mom. She probably had a smoking addiction. I think. It is bad what she did but you can't change the past. I think you should tell her how you feel and tell her about your brother too. That you think he has Antisocial personality disorder. You're 20. Don't stress yourself out. Some things are out of our control. If your brother doesn't get help for his problem. I don't know if there's anything more you can do. Unless he's making threats at you or your family. Talk to your parents about your brother. He needs to get help to control his behavior. If he doesn't control it he might end up hurting someone. My dad was out of control too.
Ashley, thank you for your reply, it was very helpful. I will talk to my parents about him but to be honest he never got into some fight as much as i know , he is just very aggressive and impulsive and doesn't listen to my parents.
Hi talk to your parents about how you are feeling how anxious and stressed you are.You have been through so much in such a short space of time and I would imagine you need help coming to terms with everything.You should get your doctor to refer you for counseling and talk through everything that has happened and is still happening.As for your mother smoking during pregnancy l don't believe that has caused in any way your brother's behaviour.
Okay then it could be he cant control his anger. Short Temper? Impulsive and aggressive behavior need to be treated if its a problem. So he can get help to control it and does not get into trouble. He's probably stressed out since he's 18. (Drivers license, work, college, ect)If he's not listening to them they need to get him the help. Anger Management Classes, therapy, counseling. I hope everything works out fine.👍Good Luck
Thank you so much i will talk to them about this you were so helpful. Good luck 2 you 2 😊
Thanks for replying i was already at counsuling and unfortunately it didnt have any positive effect due to their lack od interest and they were barely talking and all they glave me were antidepressants and antianxiety meds which wasnt That helpful and i really dont have much money to go to private psychiatrist i was a couple od times but it is way top expensive
Prenatal smoking is associated with Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Conduct Disorder, BPD, antisocial disorder, substance abuse. It has long term effects too. Im sorry for all you've been through. I hope everything gets better. You should get help for your Anxiety and Depression, bullying. A trained therapist will teach you coping skills for moving forward, such as assertive communication and boundary-setting. Some victims of bullying benefit from support groups or group therapy, in which people who have experienced similar types of victimization can support one another in healing. It's better you stay away from the bad company. (Bad influence to you)You're young you can try again with school. "You can do it."🙏 I Google searched it prenatal smoking causes alot of things. When a mother smokes, the baby smokes too hes getting it since hes on her womb. Hes at risk of being a smoker too. A Therapist will diagnose him. It may be that or something else. Don't worry. Just talk to your parents and get help. 🙌
👍Thank you too for replying. Best wishes💜