I’m unsure if this is herpes

I have 2 painful bumps that are irritated with clothes and walking . I shave and get ingrowns often . They are tender to touch and from irritation . I am unsure what they are and im freaking out . i have no other physical symptoms.

resembles herpes

Are the lesions painful?

they look like herpes but so do ingrown hairs, pimples etc.

do you have any flu like symptoms eg achey body, fever, fatigue, swollen lymph nodes in groin?

i have similar. i pray its not herpes