i need help!

Mental health
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for the past 6 months iv been a wreck every inch of my body hurts it all started from me finiding a swollen bone in my breast the doctors dismissed it. it started causing pains in my breast under my arms all over my chest really. then i started prodding everywhere and found a sticking out bone in the top part of my kneck its big and it hurts all the time it feels too big and hurts wen i move my kneck. then i started gettin the head aches they get really bad i cant move my head sometimes cause it reduses me to tears. i also have stumach pains and iv been having alot of miscarrages sad i really dont know what to do the doctors just keep dismissing me as they cant find anything wrong iv had no scans just bloods done. its ruining my life when i walk my son to school i feel like im going to pass out i worry cause he wont know what todo his only 4 years old! when im at work i feel that if i pass out who will get me im in there on my own i am the only one with the key at the time noone will be able to get me. i guess i just spend every waking moment worrying its really getting to me! please help what shall i do? x

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Hi and welcome. First I would go back to the doctor say how much pain your in and ask for a referral to the hospital!!do you not have a friend at the school gates whom would give you her mobile number in case of emergency??x

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Iv been to the doctors so many times they are gettin annoyed with me lol And no I don't know any one as I'm not one to go and start a convosation I'm not good at making friends sad x

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Maybe try a different doctor???and ask at the school for there number so you could phone them in case of emergency??

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Sarah.. Don't give up there are good docs out ther. Make a list from referals from friends take on from there. 

That's what I finally did.. I luv my doc he thinks I'm a lit ts nuts. Vice versa ..LOL

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Sarah.. UR eventually goin to have to be practical about becoming UR own advocate. No one will but u..Iike care of urself u feel good about urself.

I hate talken to any one too. There r so many rude & crude people but there are also a lot of very kind non judgementsl types too.But some times u gotta just bit the bullet & jump in...feet first of course.. 

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It's just gettin worse iv woke up today with really bad kidney pain and my husbands reply "is the pain really there or is it cause you googled kidney stones" (he had kidney stones last week) which has knocked me down again is the pain there? Ino that I'm in agony yet no one believes me I just don't know how to cope anymore! X

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Sarah,

if UR r in that much pain PLZ go to the ER .. Don't take chances with UR health. Damage could be done and cause life time health issues. Prevent serious health problems.. 

Do take the ER Seriouslr for UR protection..

hope 

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I panick around doctors they look at me weird wen I string off my symptoms as the list is endless I am booking an appointment to see my gp today I have to go to work also as iv had so much time off and the jobs new I don't want to loose it just wish they would hurry up and referr me to councling it's ruining my marriage bein like this x

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Hi Sarah,

Does sound like your having a tough time with everything,

I really think you need to go and speak to someone maybe not a doctor but maybe a therapist or a speacialst, if the doctor has said theres nothing wrong then i doubt there is its just anxiety thats making you worry about it so much, are you in physical pain? or you just feel like you may pass out alot of the time? as you need to check your getting enough fluids and eating correctly as this can often have effects on your well being.

i find that my anxiety makes me feel sick, achy and very tired but doesnt necesarily mean anything wrong physically, its all in the head.

It might be an idea to speak to someone at work about your worries and go through a plan if something were to happen, emergency wise but i doubt it ever will your just creating a worry and panic for yourself.

I suffer quie badly with anxiety but i dont tend to worry about my wellbeing just little things that can trigger me to panic.

We are all here to help support eachother and give as much advice as we can to help eachother cope with this pain in the ass condition smile.