After have sex with my gf with condom (latex) i notice that a have this in my penis. i felt a bit of pain at the moment to penetrate. this is the second time that appearsimage what should i do?
Anyone? i need help please.
What you most likely have is a dermatological reaction going on the head of your penis. This could be directly linked to the condoms - many of them have chemical compounds on the inside, such as lubricants and even spermicides. What you could simply do is change to a different brand of condom, I would try one of the well-known brands as they are likely to have better research and development to back-up their products.
However, what you could have developed on the head of your penis is a dermatological weakness that may cause you further problems in future. For this reason I will post my detailed guide on what to do and the broader issues you should at least be aware of, it is not aimed at you personally, but try putting as much of it in place, and, certainly try different condom brands … if the condition persists, I detail what to do, but, you can also update your Forum thread here …
Penile Hygiene Regime to Combat Specific Problems
The best approach is not to use ANY SOAP on the Glans / Head of your penis - wash with water only EVERY time you have urinated, after sexual arousal, and ejaculation. If you are not circumcised, protect the Glans of your penis every time you take a shower by drawing the foreskin as far forward as you can, then wash everywhere else, thoroughly rinse off all the gels / shampoo and suchlike, then expose your glans wash it with the water only using the inside of your hand, then each time you have washed it you must make sure to 100% pat dry immediately afterwards with a towel.
After you have put this in place and you still have the situation going on you need to look at what else your penis is coming into contact with on a fairly regular basis. The likely suspects are:-
- any chemical compounds such as skin cream / lotions, baby oil, oil based lubes, chemicals inside condoms (e.g. easy-on and spermicides) you need to exclude these one by one to discover the culprit, the easiest approach is to exclude everything to start with, then once things are on the mend, introduce each individual item to discover what has caused this in the first place.
- if non of these make any difference you need to look to things such as washing powder in which you wash your clothes, and underwear in, in particular. The simple alternative to washing powder is Liquid Soap Flakes, most sizeable supermarkets stock this in their own brand names - and you use this in your washing machine instead of powders or ANY fabric conditioner type additives.
If all this produces no resolution to what you have, or your condition dramatically worsens, seek medical advice from your regular Doctor - but please note, many do not fully understand the differences between the potential skin conditions you may potentially have. Therefore, the better course of action may be to see a Dermatologist, or alternatively, go to a Specialist Sexual Health Service and ask to see the duty Urologist.
Thanks you very much, i often use a liquid soap or rexona soap to clean it and i didn’t dry it, i only do up side and down a few times to "dry"it. and this time i use a lubricant in my penis and after put me the lubricant i use the condom, many these things are the cause i think.
anyway thanks a lot for you response.