So I had some unprotected oral sex with this guy. I noticed a bump on my vaginal lips and I thought it was cause of the way he was fingering me and stuff so I ignored it. The bump get growing, it wasnt painful though. However its been almost 2 weeks and the bump is now smaller but painful. I've noticed 3 pimples on the bump which are pinkish. I've been having headaches but I thought I was dehydrated and yesterday I had some muscle pain in my legs. Its not painful when I pee or anything. I'm just scared it's herpes and I'm also scared to get tested cause if it is I'm gonna be so broken, I'm only 18 and a virgin.
I'm son sorry to hear that but you really have to go get tested or you will worry yourself to death. Sense I been on her I have heard a lot of people how have been in the same situation it unfortunate but we put our self in these situations I trusted my husband of 14 yrs it can happen to anyone you can be a virgin or experience I just wish everyone would get tested if you think is something I us to go to the doctor for everything I thought I was being careful but I guess not because it happened to me I have Herps I can say it not and not feel bad because it not the end of the world I'm in a relationship been with him for 5 yrs now he knows I have it and he don't but he still loves me just as I am . So see there is life after this I promise you don't be afraid get test because it may not be what you think it is . I hope you feel better 😊
I feel like a lot of people would see it as a deal breaker. Does it sound like it's herpes? I am going to get checked out, but I just want to know my chances
I really don't want to say because it could be anything but it sounds like it could be but please don't be afraid to get tested and ask your doctor any questions you may have you might want to write them down so you want forget because you might be so nervous. And to answer your question some will and some want there is a lot of people living with this they my not tell you because they are afraid of being rejected like you as you can see by being on hear it's a lot of us . God will give you the strength to go on find someone you really trust and talk to them some one who will be very supportive you will need that it it comes back positive. I hope I was a help to you sweetie god bless you and keep your head up 😊