Hi I am raju. I have a problem with my penis. As soon as i entered my penis in my wife's vagina it becomes soft pretty much quickly (in 10 sec). Please tell me solution for this
Get a health check. You may have blood circulation problems. If not, a prescription for Tadalafil might help. If not, see a sex therapist.
raju, what are your personal circumstances? Age? How long have you been married? Do you have any other health issues going on at the moment? Are you happy about your work life, and/or you personal life? Are you stressed about anything in particular? These kinds of issues are all fundamental to your sex life .....
iam 30 and i got married only before 2 months.i didnt have stree on any thing and i dont have any health issues. please advise
Sounds like nerves mate
Hi Raju!
It might sound like a silly question what I now will ask you, but I wonder if you're sexually attracted to your wife? Are you keeping the focuse or is something else on your mind which distracts you and makes it difficult to maintain the errection? Often stress can be a cause to this or the fact that the sexual attractions lacks. Since you can achieve errections it doesn't seem to be a physical issue. Do you maintain the errection during masturbation on your own?
Yeah, during masturbation when i am masturbating my penis becomes hard when i took it to hand pump it. slowly it becomes hard and the erection are normal.
Maybe it would be good to just enjoy each others' bodies without trying penetration for a while. See if you can help each other to have pleasure or even climax without intercourse - take plenty of time with playing, kissing, caressing, licking and fingering. These can all be just as much fun and takes away the pressure to perform / keep the erection. Once this has worked for both of you a few times you may find the erections get more reliable just because your body "knows" it doesn't have to produce (and keep) the erection. Sometimes our bodies are rebellious!