I have noticed that it hurts a lot for me to have sex and additionally I get pains in my lower (left) abdomen. I;m unsure why and as of recent after intercourse, I get tears/cuts around my hole. I've tried lube but perhaps flavoured lube was not the way to go as it burned when used. If you have any tips on how I can fix that it would be greatly appreciated! :)
The pain in the lower abdomen can be caused by different thing. Maybe you can describe the pain? Where exactly in the lower abdomen does it hurt? Maybe you can illustrate it with a picture?
The tears and cuts could be caused by sex with a dry vagina or sometimes a yeast infection (anything changed in your discharge?) or STD. You can try to let the cuts and tears heal and see if the lube still burns. If you want, you can upload (a) picture(s) so we can watch the tears and cuts and maybe can give you a better advice.
im sorry i havent uploaded a photo, i havent had sex in a long time, so i dont fet those tears. when i use my dildo it doesnt tear so i think my ex was a bit bog for me. but i do get really dry. it only started being dry after i started doing laser hair removal. is there anyway i can stop the dryness? thanks for you help
What is dry, inside? Or your labia (any tears visible?)? Maybe the laser employee can give you advice for hydration?