Hi everyone, I have been so sad and depressed because of the state of my penis over the past year. If anyone could offer some guidance I'd truly appreciate it. I have these red spots only on the head of my penis, they are slightly raised and patchy. They do not cause any discomfort, and don't itch at all. I would say maybe they do feel a little tender sometimes. If I use some type of useful emollient or oil, it does help get rid of the dryness and scaliness. But If I don't use any it usually is a little more dry and scaly. I have a feeling it is psoriasis, but I am not sure. It also looks the most worst right after showering, or right after any sexual activity. I am also circumcised. I attached 3 different pictures, in one picture, it is barely noticeable, but it is rarely like this. And in another picture, when I have an erection, the red spots become much more apparent.
This does look nasty! Have you had this medically checked? There can be several different possibilities - you may have a severe Dermatological reaction going on, or, one of the Lichen based skin disorders, such as Planus or Sclerosus even though you are circumcised conditions such as this are possible …
As this is impacting on your mental heath you need to get this sorted sooner, rather than later. Get to see your Regular Doctor / GP - or go along to a Specialist Sexual Health Service such as a GUM Clinic at a General Hospital, or a City Centre Walk-in Sexual Health Service … please have the determination to get this sorted …
Do you think psoriasis could also be a possible diagnosis?
Psoriasis is a possibility - have you been checked by a Medical professional yet?!
No, I will be going soon. I have to wait until 2019 to see a good dermatologist. But for now I will get STD check. Do you think it looks horrible? I don’t want to digust future partners 
In terms of future partners, I think you will need to highlight your fears on this with the Derm - but there are lots of ways of satisfying a partner without having your penis out for inspection … Until you have this under control, think about ways of pleasuring potential partners, this then becomes your pleasure, etc …