I went to use the toilet and in the process of trying to get poop out I felt a large lump pushing ou

I went to use the toilet then in the process of poop coming out I felt a soft lump,painless one pushing out to and it itches its being there for like 4 days its freaking me out cause it itches then when I clean up itching stops it just feels like nothing is going on there but the lump is small

Sounds like a Hemorrhoid? Have you had them before? You can get OTC meds for that or go see your doctor.

Make an appointment with your doctor

use a stool softener ok it does help ok. and also  marlax  is great too. and  eattting fruit  and drink alot of water  and you,ll do good.  i did. the day after my surgry i had too poop  and it hurt but it came out soft.   but  warning  use your shower too clean you off ok  don,  wip ok.     it does well i did it for 3 weeks  and i,m doing super today