I wish I could spend the rest of my life alone without feeling miserable about it. I'm so utterly terrified of people and constantly distrustful of everyone. I couldn't approach a person for the life of me. Plus, I'm objectively ugly, so that in and of itself probably drives people away immediately anyhow. I know that I'm going to die alone, and I really wish I knew how to train my brain to accept that fact. You know the feeling where you want to cry, but you can't? I've been getting that a lot lately.
It would be difficult to turn off that part of the brain because people were made to desire human interaction.
it sounds as though you have already convinced yourself that you are not worthy of living a happy life.
and you are assuming that nobody would like to get to know you. I think you’d be surprised if you knew how many people actually would like to know you better. we actually teach people how to treat us by how we treat ourselves. when we project fear, hold our head down, don’t make eye contact, we are telling other people that we don’t like ourselves and we are not worthy. . Therefore why would they even attempt to get to know us?
We don’t have to feel confident to project confidence. Walking with your head up projects confidence. The more you do that the more you will actually believe in yourself. You wouldn’t believe how many people who actually are not attractive at all, project that confident look, they speak with confidence even though they’re not really that smart, but people are attracted to that person. and believe it or not, people will see that person as good looking. That’s because confidence is coming through, whether it’s real confidence or just projected confidence. . There’s a lot of actors that are like that.
people are easily fooled.just try it a couple times and you will see a difference. you can start out by not even talking to people but look nice and groomed, hold your head up, just walk around shopping centers or something like that. If you end up talking to anybody, speak out with confidence. Even if you have to fake the whole thing. Like I said the more you do it the more your mind will believe it. … and the easier it gets.
you deserve to have a happy life! But you have to believe that! You don’t have to be alone if you don’t want to. You might get some great help by speaking to a counselor who can help you with this. It’s great support!
GO to YouTube and listen to some great self affirmations! Your brain will register and record what you tell it. There are so many great meditations on there for exactly what you were talking about. Be a fighter for yourself! See yourself as somebody who is worthy. BECAUSE YOU ARE!!
I wish I could spend the rest of my life alone without feeling miserable about it. I’m so utterly terrified of people and constantly distrustful of everyone. I couldn’t approach a person for the life of me. Plus, I’m objectively ugly, so omegle xender that in and of itself probably drives people away immediately anyhow. I know that I’m going to die alone, and I really wish I knew how to train my brain to accept that fact.
You know the feeling where you want to cry, but you can’t? I’ve been getting that a lot lately.
thankyou my isssue has been solved