What's the bloomin' point?
Woke this maorning feeling not too bad and thought great will get some jobs round the house done.
PFFT!
Daghter gets p goes out comes back wiht hair color and asked me to apply it for her - wouldn't wait until later or tomorrow. Next, phone rings - my mum- asking what I'm doing today. Tell her I intend to get stuck into some housework - did this deter her? Did it ■■■■ - announces she will be here in abot 30 minutes.
so what a wasted day :roll:
Now house looks worse than ever - plates piled in the kitchen, hair colour packaging left on table, dirt comb and brush - all left for me to shift.
Not too sre about CBT I think I'd benefit more from assertiveness classes.
Rant over :oops:
Hi Melbi,
Would you feel more isolated if your mum stayed away, or if your daughter didn't show you that she still needs her mum? I could feel your frustration, but I would love for one of my kids to turn up needing my help or advice. As for the sink, my washing up gets done when I run out of plates!
Perhaps mum could help you do the washing up? Why not ask her? If she's there to help she won't mind, if she's not she won't bug you by coming back ... do you think?
PFFT! is so expressive!
You brought some sunshine into my day with this \"rant\" Melbi. Enjoy the day and don't stress about the washing up. By the way, I was glad to read that all your parts are in working order as per your previous night's research recently. There may yet be hope for all of us! xx
oh I just resigned to my bedroom :oops: still here now and have no intentions of moving from bed again today :roll:
Could hear both daughters discussing the pots when I went to the bathroom - heard youngest one say, 'I know mum isn't well'. Missed the rest of the conversation lol but hey! Might wake up in morning to tidy kitchen?????????????
Not in the mood to do much now - half heartedly playing Alchemy - hate that game so much - I'm convinced I play it to punish myself. :shock:
I would love 2 or 3 days of complete isolation - I mean real isolation - no sound, no company, no phones ringing - just complete peace and quiet alone.
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