Two weeks ago I had sex with this guy, and gave him a little oral, surprise surprise he never called me back again. Then on Saturday I had sex with this guy a couple times and I have him oral, and he gave me oral, down to my anus (tmi).
I had no symptoms or anything until this past Monday when my clitoris started itching and my butt was sore like when I wear thongs too much. Then it started burning and I went to the doctor and I have a UTI and blisters amd ulcers down there. Possibly herpes.. Also, my monroe piercing in my mouth got infected Monday and I had to take it out. My lip is swollen with pus and I have a white bump on the side of my tongue and a sore throat.
Help!
Youd be better off buying a vibrator than hooking up with random guys who have been with God knows who. For all you know he could have had sex with a heroin addicted prostitute before you gave him oral. You have got to be careful. There are some nasty people who will do anything with anyone and now its in your mouth. Get on some antibiotics, use antiseptic mouthwash and for heavens sake try to know the guy before you get so personal with him. It could save your life.
Also it could be syphilis, or herpes, or HIV. You have symptoms of all three of these so Id get tested if i were you. It could possibly be HPV, which is characterized by warts and so keep an eye on it to make sure you arent developing warts down your throat. HPV and HIV have no cure. They are treatable but they are viral with no cure. Please be careful.
Thank you. The Dr. Sent a swab to the lab so I won't hear back from days to a week. Im so nervous. Plus it's open sores or chancres?/ulcers and they burn very badly when I tried to wash down there. It's only been 2 days that I've had symptoms it just started hurting yesterday and its open sores already.
I am sorry to hear this. I can say that you are seeing the wrong men. I am the type that is really nice and I know this kind of guy is anything but exciting, however you need someone who will love you unconditionally. No more random hook ups, ok. find a nice guy that really cares for you and chock these affairs up to a learning curve. At least now you know what kind of guy to avoid. You find someone nice and no more worries about STD's or cheating. Say to yourself, I deserve so much better than this and believe it. I hope you are ok and the STD turns out to be something you can get rid of. Take Care.
Thank you, I was partying a lot and getting really drunk (I've been an alcoholic since childhood) and obviously made some mistakes. If I have it I know who gave it to me and they knew. Its sh*ty and right now I feel no guy would wanna be with me if I have an STD. And telling the most recent guy that I actually like (and slept with 2-3 days before primary OB) that I have it will kill. He'll probably just say I'm disgusting.
Oh no hon. Its definitely something..and i didnt mean to come off harshly as im not judgemental at all...ive got hpv and have had gonorrhea before so.. :^× im just a Sagittarius and kindof blunt but mean well!
Keep neosporin on it for now and ice might help. Does it burn when you pee? Any itching? Please let us know the outcome of this and how he treats it.
Dont tell him. If he was prior, theres no reason to mention it. It isnt anyones business. And dont talk about who gave it to you because hes not any grosser than anyone else..he just got it before you did! Back in the day among young adult groups of friends all it took was one person to get something and before we knew it everyone had it (on the down low of course)
It doesn't burn when I pee and it does itch but I've been using cornstarch to keep it dry also. Ice makes it feel a lot better. Two days ago I started to feel itching on my clitoris, then I tried to wash with ph balance Summers Eve and felt a burning sensation all down. I looked and I wish I knew how to show a picture but it's tiny open sores (or like teeny chunks of skin missing if that makes sense) from my clitoris down to my anus. Yesterday at the Dr. He said I had ulcers in my vagina too. He told my I had something suspicious and that I shouldn't ever have sex again "cause it obviously isnt working out for me"
I had sex with the person I think infected me 12 days ago, and the guy I'm seeing now, we had sex a week after that. I started itching two days after we had sex, before that I had no symptoms at all.
The roomate of the first guy came to me and told me he thought he had something after the fact. That's why when I started having symptoms I panicked. If he did know, then I'm kinda mad at him.
Ever have sex again? Ok, when i had gonorrhea, i itched fiercly in my labia and when i scratched i lost chunks of skin as well and then it burned. There was also a discharge kindof fishy but not really..just different...after i lost skin and urinated it burned so bad i went straight to the dr.!
Oh no...then you have to tell him if he doesnt already know...depending on what it is he might already know but its best coming from you then him finding out from dr. first. If he finds out first from doctor, he might judge. But hey...dont be embarassed by this. Youre both adults and its nothing but a part of life. IT shouldnt be, but in our society it is.
I know.. Hopefully I hear the results soon. The Dr. said it's probably herpes plus a UTI. What with he described as blisters and ulcers but he cant be sure, it hurts so bad especially the thin yellow discharge when it touches a sore.
As soon as I get the results, I'll tell him. I just am not sure how. We hooked up a couple times but I like him a lot, hes wanted to see me again, I just really screwed up and if I gave it to him unknowingly, I'll be so sad for ruining his life too.
I get it, but you need to be honest and most men, if they really like you won't have a problem with it. The ones that do were just looking for a booty call. My ex was an alcoholic and she slept around on me and it took a tole on our relationship. She is now clean, but no longer remembers the fun we had just the fights, so I have lost her to her addiction. In the future just make sure the guy likes you for who you are not for sex. you deserve better.
Thank you. He's a sweet guy from what I knew of him before we hooked up, even after he liked to hear me talk and hold my hand. I'm praying it goes well and if not I'm telling myself that I deserve better in a partner.
Two of my friends know and are supporting me as far as help take care of me while I'm in pain. As well as my grandmother (though it was quite a shock). First time not using protection and it cost me..
UPDATE:
Today, it was confirmed I have Genital Herpes, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis!
The first guy who I know infected me with all three denies having anything, even though his best friend told me he's positive, and even tried to blame me even though, before him, I hadn't had sex with anyone for over a year.
Then, I told Ryan, the guy I'm seeing now, and he's going to get tested, but he's very understanding and says he still likes me and wants to keep seeing me! My family and close friends are supportive as well 
At least two of them are curable
glad ur guy is understanding of it all~
i have HSV type 1 what type is Urs?
Genital herpes, so type 2? and yeah I got my penicillin shot today for the syphilis and I have a one day only 2 tablet dose for the ghonorrea and that's it. Caught it all really early. But the herpes is forever so I'm going to ask for daily antivirals, these are only 15 days to treat the OB.