Carebourn
First thanks for bringing up this subject.
I, having looked at other forums, think this is site worth reading and is far more productive than others.
Just to reiterate what you said...i firmly agree that 'alcoholism' is simply a choice and not a disease.
I teach prolific high risk offenders and have done so for sixteen years. while witnessing the effects of alcohol and drug use within the young people i work with i neglect not to admit that i use wine to relax.
i dont use it every day but when i dont im anxious....thats the issue.
I find it interesting that people are quick to list the endless forms of addictions, smoking, drugs, porn, shopping etc but can you imagine standing up infornt of a psychology lecture and saying porn/shopping addication is a disease? perhaps we are not far off this visualising the possibilities of our liberal government,
I work with with prolific young offenders and witnessing the effects of drug and alcohol misuse every day. when your brought up in a certain culture there is a good chance you will do the same. its not a disease. Its about what the heart wants.
people would do well to work more on resolving anxiety and depression rather than using alcohol disease as an excuse. I agree that anxiety and depression might be genetic but not alcoholism.
People need hope and motivation and the handed out excuse that its a disease is distructive.
i think asserting that alcolism is a disease is robbery and wicked which results in persoanl disempowerment. It removes all sense of guilt and responsibility.
im not suggesting withdrawal is easy, but i believe its the result of your choice. i would offer full support as i know alcohol dependancy can be powerful but i think its about takng control and chucking it.
Friends alcohol is not your friend. dig heels in a chuck it!
Dont buy the lie that your stuck with it! its not YOU. make a decision to divroce it