Hi Steve - well you have just received the best information from Gillian that you are ever likely to receive from anyone, obviously even from your dr.
I obtained a disability pension from the health issues I had that had all come on with the onset and 9 year late diagnosis of haemochromatosis (in Australia). There is still doubt that all our symptoms are caused by haemochromatosis. These disability pensions do not come easy at all, and yes you need tremendous support from your dr to get one. I also tendered a letter describing my problems and why they made me unable to work. If I even worked for a couple of hours plus travel, I would be stuffed for the rest of the day making living difficult and not be able to turn up the next day. However, they do like you to at least do some voluntary work which I was doing - promoting the awareness of haemochromatosis for our Australian organisation. I must add that I loved my job and it was with great disappointment and reluctance that I had to give up working.
The application forms barely allowed enough information to provide a full explanation of my health issues. Hence my supporting letter. My dr had to tick the box that my issues were going to last more than 2 years. Every 2 years, I had to go through it again, until I reached aged pension age.
I was lucky to be interviewed by a woman whose cousin also had haemochromatosis, but that could have gone against me if that person barely suffered any symptoms at all and all was well with early diagnosis and treatment.
My advice is to focus on all your health issues that are preventing you from being able to work and not try to make it all about haemochromatosis. You are more likely to get more support from your dr. Even if they can't explain it and don't know how to treat it, or treatment is unsuccessful, it is still a health issue for you.
Even those some of those people diagnosed with CFS have spent a couple of years of their life in bed doing nothing else. What financially supports them, as they are unable to work?
To address your symptoms:
BTW, I am homozygous C282Y, my husband is homozygous, and son is compound heterozygous C282Y/H63D. Mine is most aggressive, my husband's is mild (was venesected down to <50 and then did not load any more iron - but he did get Hodgkin's Lymphoma which also put him out of work and I had to apply for a disability pension for him), and our son is in between and because of poor lifestyle now has diabetes.
I was finally diagnosed in 1998 after my hips broke up from osteo-necrosis (my blood was so thick with iron it could not get into the finer capillaries that fed the bone). Of course I had to have my hips replaced and one of them was botched which has caused me constant pain and a bent back problems.
Fatigue - geez, I hate it. I have very short days to do what I have to do. When I pushed myself to keep working, I was staggering and slurring. Even now, if I try to stay up past 7pm, I get flu symptoms which go shortly after heading to bed.
Yes - brain fog, memory problems and unable to focus and concentrate. In winter 2002 I suddenly broke out in constant sweats of my face and head. I was already using HRT so menopause symptoms were ruled out, thyroid ruled out, then they gave up on me. After 6 years of this misery, a different dr sent me to an endocrinologist who diagnosed a pituitary gland tumour which was making my oestrogen inefficient. Medication eased it like a miracle. At the same time, I was found to have very rapid heart beat and I was put on beta blockers. My brain immediately went seriously foggy, I could not say more than two words at a time as my words were lost by the time they reached my mouth and my brain was not talking to my bladder, so I was constantly wetting myself. Beta blockers are designed to dilate the blood vessels and I think this allowed more iron to get into my brain. It took 2 years for me to be able to speak sentences again. In the meantime, I forgot how to find my drs office, and I suddenly could not read traffic lights, so I had to give up driving.
I too have a problem with suddenly being too cold or too hot. Haemochromatosis affects the hypothalamus which controls our temperature controlling ability.
Dry eyes which are put down to menopause.
Often when walking through a shopping centre, I would suddenly feel like I was hit by a truck, and I would be yawning, yawning, like I needed more oxygen. The truck hit problem often occurred when I was eating, and I have found that not eating sugars and starchy foods (potatoes, pasta, rice, bread, etc) has relieved it.
My husband became seriously depressed and he would have a bad reaction to anti-depressants for some years. Eventually his dr thought to test his B12. It was seriously deficient and this causes neurological problems. I was already giving him B12 in tablet form but he was unable to absorb it, so injections first weekly, now every 3 months changed his outlook on life considerably.
I can't absorb Vit D by tablets and was found to be deficient, so my dr put me on to a practitioners brand of D3 forte drops. My D blood levels immediately went up.
We all mostly end up with fatty liver disease and this can be treated by eliminating sugars and starches as per above. It is sugars and starches that cause the problem, not fatty foods, in fact we should consume more good oils instead. People with HH have been found to not be able to digest sugars and starches very well, eventually leading to diabetes.
I sleep ok because I am so tired all the time. However, I wake up often still tired despite that.
In the 9 years of non diagnosis, my dr put my symptoms down to CFS, and I said to her that CFS is not a diagnosis, it is a symptom of something else.
I hope this helps you. Good luck.