Is it herpes helpppp

hi, i noticed this bump a couple days ago. it hurts because my panties would stick to it and it hurts to remove it. theres no burning or itching or tingling. photo below

this does look like it. it is not just one bump I see more in that general area. if this is your first outbreak when was you last exposure? since it is scabbed there is no use for a swab. now if a new outbreak occurs go get swabbed or wait 3 months for your blood test whichever occurs first.

im prone to boils and ingrown hairs. the black dots werent outbreaks. but the bump went down and it looks like brown fluid or blood

and my last recent exposure was january 9th. the guy put his fingers in my vagina. that was the only risky activity since the summer. ive had the igg test for hsv 1 and 2 multiple times and jts always come back negative. is it a great chance that i got it from his fingers?

no you won’t get it from his fingers. it could be an infection and you would need antibiotics to clear it hence why you keep getting staph infections down there. since you are safe and check regularly. just wait until your next screening but if it happens again before testing go get a swab just in case