Does everyone actually use someone one else to get them through tough times?
Is it the real meaning of life? Do we actually really only use people as a tool or aid
from friends through to relationships it seems the same set of rules apply
we want them when we need them and they become a thorn in the side when we dont are we all really a crutch?
I wonder whether we kid ourselfs behind the I've no hidden agenda statemate, of course theres an agenda its self-serving!
Maybe we dont realise it but its there for why have friends at all if not to make yourself feel better the desire to be wanted and loved is our own we use people to obtain the feeling of security when really we are so vulnerable its an illusion one that we are happy to indulge in as reality much like a child beleiving in santa it makes Christmas all that more exciting
whenbyou realise santa isnt real the fun goes the mystery shifts to disappointment the deciet from the ones you loved (parents) sits heavy and like most things turns into a vicious circle its the first time we figure out we have been lied to and cabt trust everything we hear even fron thise that we love and love us
and yet we do the same to our children instilling the first experience of deciet
then i guess it becomes the norm its socailable exceptable and infact encouraged its become the norm
its actually sad when you break it down it how we learn to mislead others
people are not born liars or selfish its a taught process and the sad thing is they are taught it by the ones they are loved by it opens up a whole loads of pain suspiciousion and doubt
Santa is not real! !!!
You are not loved!!
you are peoples crutch!!
A leaning post to take a break from reality!!
You are infact alone in life!!!
Do yourself a favour and realise it before its to late for you too!!!