Is my meatus normal or swollen? It's also kinda red after ejaculation but gone after minutes.

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Good morning

I think it looks fine. It is going to be a little red after sex or masturbation because of the blood in the penis. When the blood is gone so is the redness.

Take care Ken

Thank you Ken. Have a nice day

Agree with Ken, the other issue you need to be careful about during masturbation and / or sex is whether you are applying anything to your penis such as an actual lube, or, anything else.
You may have a slight irritation factor going on - lubes and things like baby oil or lotion are okay for masturbation, but must NOT make contact with the meatus.
Coconut Oil is a slightly better option as long as you are not using them with condoms - as a lube for masturbation it is really good for penile skin as it is a natural plant product: a very light coating on the shaft is all that is required

No problem Just relax…Ken