



heres the picture of the red stain around the head
i attach one more picture
From the photos it does not look like there is anything unusual going on, or present.
Hopefully the lesson you have learned is not to squeeze the head of your penis - the difference you may be noticing pre- and post-squeeze will likely fade away in time.
You mention about soap getting inside your urethra, this can potentially cause a severe issue with the Meatus (the actual pee-hole, or outlet from the urethra) and the urethra itself. You should NOT place any soap or any other form of body wash anywhere near the tip of your penis to prevent these issues.
The little cracks you have can be linked to being circumcised as this removes the natural source of hydration for the tip of the penis, and, to using things like soap and shower gel to wash your penis with as these too cause excessive drying of the skin on the head of the penis.
Best to do is to stop as far as possible soap and shower gel from draining onto your penis when you take a shower, NEVER apply soap or any other form of body wash, such as shower gel to your penis, and wash with water only, never expose the head of your penis to hot water
I am uncircumcised, but yeah all my life ive been using soap to wash my gland, thank you!