i would just like peace of mind and reassurace that im okay, if thats rhe case. i have really bad health anxiety, i do take meds for it. . for YEARS now, i have had this small spot on my labia minora. as circled in above picrure. i noticed it when i was in middle school, i am 21 now and it has not changed shape, color, or size. it is not painful, or itchy. it is flat. i always panic that it is vulvar melanoma, as i have read about it. but since it hasnt changed any, could it just be a birthmark?
also, what are those bumps pictured? i have just recently started panicking about them, but im sure theyve also been there for years. panicked so hard last night in fact, i threw up and havent been able to eat or sleep since. i have read they could just be fordyce spots, but mine seem to be a bit bigger i think? they dont itch or hurt that ive noticed. i also seen somwthing anout genital warts which scared the crap out of me. but ive been married for a year mow and been with the same guy for 3. i have been pregnant and had a miscarriage at 12 weeks so i WANT to think that if anything was wrong with me like cancerous, or std, hpv wise.. theyd have caught when they were doing those blood tests/ultrasounds. they had to do internal and external ultrasounds.
one last thing. if i have sex after my period ends, i always bleed just a little. and its normally only the forst time after i pee/wipe. it doesnt hurt to have sex, and i ONLY spot like that after my period ends. i dont bleed after sex everytime, and i dont spot between periods. im on birth control pills.
sorry it is so long, ive never had anyonw to talk to about these things, so i dont know what a healthy vagina/vulva is suppossd to look like. thanks in advance!