I have been tested for herpes and told I was negative by both my last PCP and my last gynecologist just two years ago. I was also screened for sexually transmitted diseases back in my youth too and was negative for everything (herpes and HIV were really in the mediat 3 decades ago and I went and had myself tested).
I was tested because I get a blistering rash on my upper butt area. I have Celiac Disease and a doctor suspected it was dermatitis herpetiformis (skin manifestation of celiac disease) and wanted me to take Dapsone for it. I wanted confirmation I had dermatitis herpetiformis before starting such medication. They did a biopsy and a PCR test on it at the dermatologist. To my shock, it came back HSV2. I am told that dermatitis herpetiformis is commonly misdiagnosed as HSV2. They say they are sure it is HSV2. My question is this: How accurate is testing before a first outbreak?
I was tested many years ago and then two years ago. I didn't have so much as HSV1. I have not had sex in over 7 years. I have only had only one partner in 22 years. I used condoms with the partner I had 22 years ago. I used condoms with my last partner for the first 7 years we were together.
I honestly do not know what to think. If it is HSV2 then either my current partner gave it to me or it got through a condom 22+ years ago only to lie dormant and surface on my buttocks 7 years since I last had sex. Besides, I have had so many doctors look at this blistering rash. I was told it was a fungus, DH rash, and now herpes. It was cultured once before and that was negative. I think that they are basing the HSV2 diagnosis on the recent biopsy taken.
I realize HSV2 is not the worst diagnosis a person can be given. But I have had this latest rash for 30 days. I started Valtrex and took it for 10 days, twice a day. I had the rash throughout that period. If it is herpes, it is invincible. It did not go away any faster on the Valtrex than it would normally take it to go away. I have had an outbreak of this almost monthly for the past two years. It leaves a brown stain after it heals, followed by a reddish purple spot that takes months to fully go away. My butt looks awful. It is painful when flared. It burns and itches. It starts off looking like a red rash. It feels like a boil is erupting under it. Then it blisters.
Please give me some advice. My current PCP told me that the virus can lay dormant for decades. I find it incredibly hard to believe that it would lie dormant, evade testing for years, only to show up now - and on my upper butt only, 7+ years since I last had sex. I guess anything is possible.
I have been told so many wrong things over the years that my trust in doctors is not very high. I feel I need an expert in herpes to answer the question.
I realize the stigma attached to HSV2 is ridiculous. Yet, I feel simply awful since hearing this news. I am married. My husband shows no signs of this. He feels he may just not know he has it and given it to me. He is being really cool, wants to think it was him that gave it to me. I wonder if I can even rely on the doctors to be right that I have it.
The nurse at my doctor's office confided to me that she has it and she says it can be transmitted non-sexually. I did have a friend with HSV2 and I did borrow clothing from her but I hear the virus is fragile. Still, she and I were close friends. I did used to get this thing that they said was a fungus, which is exactly where the virus appears now. That is, I had an opening if the virus needed one. I also have a deficient immune system.
Anyway, thank you for reading this and for any light you may shead on this.