I seriously need help, I stress all the time, I overthink everything, I create 1000 different scenarios in my head for things that could possibly go wrong. I have this incredible boyfriend that I associate these things with mainly because I’m always so scared lll stuff it up. The tinest things get to me and make me think the worst, like he doesn’t love me anymore or I’m always annoying him. I don’t know how to stop myself, it feels impossible. I don’t know if that makes it something wrong with my brain but just any guidance would be appreciated so much. I don’t think it’s anxiety, because I don’t ever feel like anxious but I’m just going to post it here.
Thank you.
Hi Claire, I think what you are doing is doubting yourself. You need to have that confidence to say you are worth having this person in your life because you are. He’s with you because he loves who you are. Talk to your friends if you need some confidence boosting and they will tell you that you don’t have anything to worry about. Enjoy your relationship and go out and have fun!
Thank you so much, you’re so sweet
Claire
I went through something similar with my first Girlfriend/Engaged. We could not be apart, I went on holiday for two weeks and we would write every day, we even arranged several phone calls just to make sure we were waiting to see each other again, that we did not find anyone else, I was young and daft sad to say the relationship did end a couple of years later.
It may be OCD although I feel you are still uncertain that the relationship will not continue. You need to understand relationships do end, we need to understand that.
These relationships are so vital and romantic expectations can break up, If this happens, the person is not right for you and there is always someone for you deep in the wings.
You will find the right person you never know what may happen
Try not to be too clinging
BOB