Is this an outbreak or ingrown hairs? Weird dots on buttocks.

i was waxed 3 weeks ago. usually get painful ingrowns 2 weeks after. the bumps on vagina bled tuesday and i plucked a hair from both yesterday. looks like this now. still concerning. boyfriend cheated on me. found out a month ago. we had unprotected sex. i noticed these 3 dots on my bum. (look down, theyre tiny) no pain, no discomfort. have an appointment tomorrow morning. im paranoid, help!

they kinda look like ingrowns. were they blisters that popped or?

i dont recall them ever being blisters. i didnt feel a thing until i noticed the blood on my panties tuesday. its the 3 dots down below that are concerning.

the 3 dots are on your butt? cuz I don’t see that in the pics

its in the bottom left corner of photo

oh damn, i could barely see it. its very hard to tell, but they sort of look like a cluster of blisters. If I were you, I’d go to urgent care or the emergency to get a swab for accurate results. I’m sure the guy isn’t going to be truthful or probably wouldn’t even know if that person has herpes.