Is this genital herpes or an ingrown hair? help me please

15 days ago I had a sexual intercourse, I used a condom but I had shaved before and I don’t know if they were microlesions, yesterday that red ball appeared to appear inflamed, it didn’t hurt, when I squeeze it came out a little blood and a little of transparent pus, I put some of my urine in it and it does not burn or itch.! Appeared yesterday image