Last week i had sex, didnt use a condom like an idiot. I was sort of not wet enough so it did hurt a little bit. The next day it still hurt, so I was thinking that maybe it just caused tears in my vagina. But its been a whole week and it still hurts. Yesterday i took a look at it and it was really red. Im not having any other symptoms of herpes like a fever, tiredness, itching, it just hurts ALOT like if i wipe or even just touching the vulva. Im not sure what it could be or if i can really see noticeable white spots. I have a doc appointment in a few days but Im freaking out. i dont even know how to tell him that he mightve given me something, because its not like hes having symptoms and he probably thinks that if you dont show symptoms then you must not have anything. Please help thankyou!