i have just started going out with a guy and we had rough sex about a week ago, rougher than normal and he was rubbing, biting and sucking a lot down below. A day after my clit was so sore to touch and then 3-4 days later i noticed these bumps on the outer lips and then ulcers on the inside which are very sore when i am peeing. They dont seem to have pus in them. Is it herpes or maybe just from the rough sex? I have talked to my bf and he said he is sti free. The last time i had unprotected sex was 4 months ago, could symto