is this herpes? I'm going crazy. Help me please

I had sex and two days later I got a herpes in my mouth (I have cold sores since I was little) and 7 days after that relationship I got a pimple on my parts. It only hurt if I squeezed it a lot, I did not feel itching or burning when urinating.
I also started a treatment for vaginosis. It’s been a week since I felt the pimple and now it looks like this.
have an appointment with the doctor but I would really appreciate your experiences and advice, I feel very bad
thank you