Is this herpes or just friction rub?

i had rough sex a week ago and my vagina got irritated and i am thinking it was due to lack of moisture.. now it has a tiny blister on it around my vulva! i am freaking out can someone please tell me what you think it is? i am anxious to go to the doctor but it not until another week. do you think it got worse from my panties rubbing on it from wearing jean shorts? it was way worse than this a couple days ago but one side of my vulva healed. i been putting neosporin on it and coconut oil to help with that irration.

heres another picture

It looks like herpes:(

ouch it is xx

sorry mama it looks like herpes

thanks for your reply
my home testing comes in today, i will come back and let you guys know for sure

any update ?

in a couple days my results should be in, will keep you updated

cane back positive for herpes 1 & 2