Is this herpes? Scaring myself and also already scheduled a dr visit

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been about 5 days with this... i go back n forth whether its herpes or not appreciate some clarifying and support ! thanks everyone !!
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if you are in a lot of pain then i would lean towards yes. but if no pain still go to the doctor and get checked

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do u think it is ? its really only painful after a bowel movement