Hey, so after a week of my gf staying over, there was a lot of sex, both vaginal and anal,( it may be important to add that i used a lubricant that i hadnt before, which stayed very sticky after when i fell asleep, which could have been a breeding ground for bacteria, especially after anal, and a new body wash, i also suffer from very dry skin all over) but no oral as i had a cold sore at the time, which we both get. about 5 days i got a raised area on my penis that looked almost like a small whitehead, just a raised patch of skin that had a tiny pin sized white spot on it ! (1st and second picture) image
which my first instinct was to pop, so i did, which i regret but oh well. it didnt hurt much, there was a tiny amount of white liquid then some clear, it felt like more of a small pinch and was almost healed in 3 days. the day after it appeared i had a sti check and a herpes swab which all came back negative. (which i found out today) the person i saw at the clinic also said it didnt look likely, but regardless the next day i went to another clinic who also said it didnt look suspect.
however 2 nights ago i noticed a very similar raised area, which i didnt touch this time, and went back to the clinic as id been instructed to if it got worse. At the time of this examination it looked like a small pin whitehead on a raised bump, also barely painful (3rd and 4th photo)
She took one look at it and completely disregarded herpes. and took no further swabs.
i was still doubtful of this due to my ridiculous anxiety and decided to get a private swab, which i am currently waiting on results for.
What makes me think it is herpes:
The fact i only recently started getting cold sores from contact i had on the same day as i received oral
The fact there are 2 sores.
Headaches and feeling hot, but my anxiety has done both of these before in the same manner.
What makes me think it isnt:
The fact they dont hurt much.
How fast they are healing
No ulceration so far
possible bacterial infection or clogged pore
Anyone with experience recognise anything ive mentioned?
