Is this herpes?

since about june i slept with this girl and since then ive been getting bumps that go away but this is the first time it became a sore, it doesnt hurt or itch i sometimes forget its there but my urethra itches sometimes and the head of my penis has a random stinging feeling but it never hurts or burns too pee, groin area has pain sometimes but i believe thats due to the inguinal hernia i have. sometimes my feet n toes randomly hurt idk if its related to my situation or just my hysteria.