Is this herpes?

I've tested negative last year after a scare from an infection I got after having surgery on my bits. But I just had really rough sex with my partner and ended up super sore and swollen, felt the need to pee but didn't have to for a day and now there's a strong smell to my pee. There's also 3 blisters near the opening of my bits. They're extremely painful and are bothering me but I'm not sure what they are. The inside of my bits looked a bit off too? Tho the spots in this picture aren't there anymore. He says he's sore too and thinks it's just a friction burn cuz I'm really tight? He doesn't have any marks but was pretty red and reported that it hurt to pee two days later

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An update on this and some information that I forgot to mention.

During the rough sex we did switch from vag, anal back to vag but he wiped himself off with a baby wipe so I assumed it’d be fine. And then we had sex again the next day and it was after that I became really sore. And then we had sex again because whoops lol I ended up chafed.

Anyway. My pee started smelling very strong after I had posted this, not fishy just strong and was a much darker color than usual (tho still yellow). And today I started having some bloody discharge and then some puss like discharge and my insides hurt a bit. The outside is still sensitive to the touch but you pretty much can’t see it’s there anymore? At least imo. The thing on the inside has gotten bigger and more obvious tho and now I’m wondering if it’s actually just an infection with friction sores?

I do plan on going to my Dr and getting tested it’s just that I can’t until I go back home next week. (will update when I get results tho)

I’m a little bit freaked out atm xP

Hi, it does not look like herpes to me. However, you may be bruised. Rough sex can cause bleeding, cramping or bruising. Herpes takes usually 1-2 weeks for symptoms to come up. Your PH balance might have been thrown off from the intercourse, causing bacterial vaginosis, which would explain the colour and odour of the discharge. Check it out with a gynecologist. All the best!

Sorry for the very late update! So i ended up going to the dr to get checked out. It wasnt herpes or any other std or infection or anything. Turns out that i have cancer. Gotta say that was a huge shock but it explains a ton of things that ive been dealing with the past few months.

If you think something is wrong please go get yourself checked out! The sooner you go the better! Dont avoid your issues or they may turn into something way worse.