Is this HPV genital warts or just ingrown hairs??

ive had these for literally 5 months and they havent gone away. i was worried i got genital warts from my ex boyfriend who cheated on me but they seem to have a dark spot in the middle which could be hair? idk and i dont wanna ask my mom to take me to get checked. any advice? image

blocked pore? like a blackhead?

If it’s been there for five months unchanged it can’t be herpes.

They look more like blackheads than ingrown hairs