im a virgin 21F but ive given and recieved oral. im currently seeing another virgin guy and weve been giving each other oral sex for a year now without actually having sex. we once tried to but i have vaginismus and his tip didnt even fit in my vagina at all he was basically stabbing my hole without actually getting in there. i was wondering if those sores are genital herpes? they are very small and painless and i had to spread one of them to get a better a picture. i also shave my pubes and im very prone to ingrown hairs i even got them in high school whenever i wasnt sexually active or shaving my pubes at all. theres one by my folds near the clitoris and one on the labia majora. the one on my labia majora is a little recurrent especially when i have shaved my pubes but the one on my folds near the clitoris is new and they only hurt whenever i wash down there. i wash my vagina with a wash cloth and the cloths are a little abrasive and i scrub really hard to make sure there is no smegma or anything. is there a chance that these are cuts from scrubbing with a wash cloth really hard? they are very very and painless they only hurt when im washing my vagina (washcloth). my mom thinks they are cuts and told me she gets them too