Is this HSV1 or HSV2 or something else?

i went to the gynaecologist and when she took a look she said she thinks its herpes. of course I am in shock. I guess I deserve it for having unprotected sex. God has punished me. anyway. I have no other symptoms the redness happened after I scratched out of frustration. yes it hurts when pee goes over it. has anyone had anything similar. I hope I can get some support while I wait for my swab results. I have an antiviral and cream.
just to note on the sunday before this appeared I had dry rough sex that went on for too long. that was 8 days ago.

could be from irritation or herpes,
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