Myself and my husband got married just over 5 weeks ago (on our 10th anniversary together) the day was perfect. What we dreamed it would be. But since the wedding i feel like we are distant, dont do a lot together. I feel he is not attracted to me now and i have to argue with him to think about spending time with me. I do suffer with anxiety and depression (since having my child 4 years ago) but i thought newly weds look lovingly at each other and want to spend all their time in bed together but this is not the case. We didnt have a passionate night on our wedding night and have slept together 4/5 times since we got married. Is this normal for newly weds??
Hiya I think you looking too much in to things and trying for everything to be perfect , by the book If you know what I mean. Dont compare your marriage to others , or how it should be. Dont try Too Hard. Marriage shouldnt change anything. You just have this image of marriage and if it doesnt go by it you stress over this. Every marriage is diffirent. The important thing after getting married is not to expect it to change what you feel deep inside. What counts that you love your husband and you want to be with him and I bet he loves you very much as well. People often make this mistake that they think that after their get married things are going to change, that you are going to be passionate like people in movies. Just be yourself and everything is gonna work out. Get rid of this image of perfect marriage, how it should be etc. Just be yourself😘😘☺
It's hard to comment really, because we are only hearing your side of things. Which isn't to assign blame, but it's hard to know what issues might exist from only one side of it