I'm 68. I have had 2 BPH procedures - TUNA (needle ablation) about 10 years ago and Urolift last month. I used tamsulosin for about 8 months prior to the Urolift.
First, there is great help on this site.
Second, you have to find a doctor that you can trust.
Why did I choose Urolft? Doctor recommendation AND listening to others who have had that and other procedures. That's the value of this site.
I had a broken ankle when I was 9. Pretty much every 9 year old who broke their ankle healed the same way. With BPH, there is much more variation. We're older and can have other things going on.
For me, it was the increase in night time trips that led me to believe that my prostate had grown 10 years after the TUNA. The doctor tried the tamsulosin. Helped a little at first, but not effective after a few months. Note: others have good results from it, but not me. And I hated the RE.
The doctor recommended the Urolift. I did not ask him about PAE. There are others on this site who can talk to you about this.
While I did post a little about my procedure, the short version - first: cystoscopy to determine if my prostate size would work with the Urolift. Got an infection from it that was awful. Antibiotics saved my sanity. Urolift procedure two weeks later worked as advertised. Minimal bleeding. Physical activity limited for about a week (other than brief walks).
5 weeks after the procedure, I get up once a night most nights. A few nights 2-3. Did the glass of beer orwine do it? Beats me. There is still some residual soreness in the urethra that is slowly improving. Related to that, I think, is that when I have to go, I have to go. I took a spinning class for 30 min (usual time 60 min). I had to get to the urinal and just made it. That is slowly getting better. I took a road trip this week. Because I was concerned about not finding a rest stop on the 7 hour driving days, I used Depend pads (not the full underwear). While I didn't need it (I made it to the bathroom ok), I don't pack a lot of extra clothes. There were a couple of the stops that it was close. Maybe, it was a case of having belt and suspenders.
While I don't have a cancer diagnosis, based on my father's experience, there might be one in my future. I'm sure that there are guys on this site who can give you more guidance.
Good luck