Hello you lovely people! I hope your day is going great so far. (sorry for any bad language) (I'm cringing writing this, I've never wanted to curl up in a ball and hide so much in my life!) Well my issue is that I haven't had sex since I was 17-18 I'm 26 now, and I'm constantly horny and it's literally pissing me off..touching myself helps but my clitoris hurts after because it's like 2-3 times a day that's how turned on I get (I don't do it hard), so does the Urethra, the part between the Urethra/vaginal opening hurts and the vaginal opening hurts and also inside. so a few months ago I bought a (realistic dildo 7 inches but only 5.5 inches insertable ), each time I use it I make sure it's clean, I don't use lube as I myself lubricate it enough (if you know what I mean), when putting it in I make sure I'm fully relaxed but I want to fucking scream, it hurts so bad, I let myself adjust to it but when moving it feels so bad (even after pumping it 2-3 times liquid pushes out, this is the whole time I'm doing it. Now this is every single time I use it, It hurts before/during and for hours after. Like the whole area. I also have vulvodynia (for almost 3 years) the doctor said it was like eczema down there or something, it's literally are fucking train wreck down there with the amount of issues, it's ruining my life, I can't sit flat on seats anymore, I'm scared to urinate because it touches the skin, I don't do it at night because it hurts to lay down after it, I can't walk or stand for to long. (the pain from the vulvodynia and the pain from inside the vagina is different) I have no clue what to do anymore, anybody got any advice for all of this I would appreciate it so damn much. I'd get on my knees and beg you if I could. :'( :'( :'( (sorry if this is a complete mess too read) <3 <3
go back to your doctors for a proper examination /diagnosis it could be numerous things