Me and my bf have been dating for about 6 months and I’ve noticed that the puppy love is gone which is okay bc I knew it would go away but now everything seems perfect when I’m with him he talk about me in his future, he understands me , we work out our problems but when I’m away from him I start to worry weather he’s the one or he’s gonna be another one of my heart breaks, when I start to try and think how I feel I feel as if stress and worrying makes me numb to the lovey feelings but when I’m around him I feel them and are happy so I’m wondering is it normal to not feel lovely feelings all the time when I’m with him. Is it maybe just that we have reached a new love feelings instead of the puppy love. I’ve also been hurt a lot in the past and I feel as if I’m scared almost to let myself be happy which may be causing me to worry and question my relationship.
Hi Ally. I can't answer you question only you can but I do have a question for you. Since you have been hurt before do you think that you feel safe in your love when you're with him? And when he's away from you maybe you shut down because you are afraid of getting hurt? Diane
I feel love and safety and like I can be with him for the rest of my life but when I’m away from him I feel as if my feelings are numb like I’m not as happy without him or I don’t feel a lovey feelings I also get upset a lot when I probably shouldn’t and I worry he’s gonna leave all the time and when. I stress I doubt weather I’m really losing feelings or just stressed