
Damn man i hate when infidelity happens and its might be something so go to the doctor which I know its a difficult decision but health safety is first… And make your wife go also
Spencer, when did you last have penetrative sex or receive oral from your wife?
Yes, stop using the body wash and soap altogether - water only from now on …
The photo is not very clear to say what the bumps actually are - try posting a photo or 2 taken in bright daylight …
Certainly the bumps towards the top end of the head / glans may actually be naturally present, and these are most likely to be Pearly Penile Papules (PPP) so, I am also wondering what age you are … ?
Some sensation of pain following ejaculation is normal, particularly if you urinate soon after ejaculation - so if there is no pain on days when you do not masturbate that is fine …